I've been in business for over 10 years. Some years I've felt like a pro. Other years I've felt like an impostor. 

Some years I have made tons of money (multiple six figures), other years what felt like hardly any (under $30k).  Some years I've outspent my earnings and other years I've saved. Some years I've been proud of my accomplishments and at other times I've wondered if I have any talent whatsoever for what I'm trying to do. 

I wasn't one of those women who longed for children, or marriage for that matter.* 

So when we realized in early January of 2014 that I was pregnant (and had been for 4-6 weeks!) I felt lucky.